Shobha Nargundkar

Is it wrong to change my mind? Is it wrong to be very friendly with someone and not feel like meeting them for sometime? Is it wrong for friends to do the same to you.. you wanting to meet them and they not reciprocating? Is it wrong to feel jealous and rejected if your friend bypasses you and gets pally with your husband or your best friend? Is it wrong to get angry if someone criticizes your mother? Is it wrong to be upset when your friend just chooses to be friends with someone who upsets you? It is wrong to feel the need for appreciation, attention and love? How can it be wrong? Its a feeling and it comes from within based on my perception of the situation... Why then do I feel guilty, if I'm not wrong? Well, guilt is also a feeling and I probably have a need in me to feel that way... till I 'realize' that it is a useless feeling. I cannot change what I have done. I can change what I do now if I think I did something 'wrong'...

I am attracted to finding spiritual solutions to practical problems which I believe translate into practical solutions automatically...mostly because the problem itself ceases to be a problem. Understanding a practical problem from a spiritual perspective dissolves the problem... the realization that you attracted the situation or the person or the disease into your life, brings peace into your life and in that peaceful state if you meditate on the situation you will find a peaceful way to handle the situation and feel grateful for the lesson and feel enriched by the experience. Knowing that you attract everything into your life is easy. Realizing it...the 'aha' moment is when the shift happens. Like this morning when I suddenly realized that 'my expectations' bring me a a lot of heartache and disappointment. When I 'expect', I don't ask. When I don't ask, I may not get. If I don't get, I get angry, because I expect others to give it to me without as...