Shobha Nargundkar

I liked 'The Immortals of Meluha'. It was like the Radical Forgiveness process unfolding...the victim story, the feelings due to the assumptions and judgments, leading to more distance and finally war and questions at the end of the war...who was evil? they or us? was anyone evil at all? then what was the war about? Guilt! And the perfection of it all. The bigger picture! ...Peace! This is what we do on a daily basis- we want love..to receive and to give. Then judgments creep in, then the distance grows, then we fight and may stop talking. At the end of it, are we right? or happy? then why are we in this situation? Using Colin Tipping's Radical Forgiveness Tools, we can collapse the energy that holds this judgment in place and free our blocked energy for other more creative things than for holding on to destructive energies of anger, pain, hurt guilt etc.. At the end we see the perfection of whatever happens. This understanding always existed but now it is easy to apply to ...

I attended a workshop " Love Yourself and heal your life" in 2002 by Sailaja that changed the way I looked at myself and my life. The change was obviously not apparent for everyone to see immediately and it was also not what everyone would like to see. Because this change was within me and about loving myself and taking care of my feelings and my emotions. And the techniques were very simple to use and apply. Once you are aware of the changes you want to make and know what you want to create, its a question of focussing on what you want using affirmations, vizualisations etc... and slowly moving away from negative self talk to a positive empowering one. Even if you don't do anything else, only thinking " I love and accept myself exactly as I am" is a potent tool. Saying it when you least feel like it is the key. Since then, I have come a long way -learning new tools and techniques on the way, reading books, meditations, experiencing past-life regression, learni...

Recently when Aai left for America, I took it upon myself to clean up her place... why would I want to do that, when I could have just relaxed and enjoyed myself. Especially since it appears that she doesn't want anything cleaned up anyway.... I don't know, its almost a compulsive need in me to clean her house. I don't like the fact that she surrounds herself with lots and lots of stuff- from the smallest bit of paper that enters the house to the largest cupboards and shelves... and every bit is preserved. As you can imagine, over the years, the free space is reduced and trash is filled up in every nook and corner. So the 'bai' that comes in doesn't know where to start cleaning, so she doesn't. Result... all surfaces are filled with dust, webs and you name it... Since I visit from time to time, I suggest not without expectation that she should not collect any more stuff or provide storage space for junk in the hope that it might be needed some day, but I gue...

I was attacked by a virus or some bacteria that has caused me unbearable amount of pain and suffering in the last few days. Pain in the throat, ear and throbbing in the whole head...miserable feeling. How do I explain to myself why this happened to me ? Because I needed it for some reason. Some of the likely reasons were : I was overdoing outdoor activities - partying, movie watching, eating out and so on... knowing that i was overdoing it and unable to say 'no' for various reasons. I attended 2 workshops back to back of 'transgenerational healing' and didn't give myself enough time to assimilate and integrate change. Doing a lot of coaching without probably adequate protection of myself or the space... My mother was visiting, Hari was completely drowned in GHS, my maid was being most irritating and so on. Basically too much was happening all at once and it took its toll.. What does this tell me... ... to pay attention to the signs that my body is giving me... I co...

Celebrated the successful completion of my workshop "Be the Change" on 3-4 dec. Celebrated it with Hari,Chitra and Anjali, the three people who made it possible for me to go and be at the workshop without any worries about Anjali or the home front! Thank you ! There are many more people I would like to thank who have been supporting me in my growth.. today I know that every person i relate to for a short while or for a long time, supports me directly or indirectly through the lessons that I learn from them. Because my life is a reflection of who I am , everybody is always helping me grow by holding the mirror to me... I see the reflection and I am happy when I like what I see and learn more about myself when I don't like what I see.. So that's an ongoing process and I am grateful to all my teachers... Here I want to thank all my associates and teachers who have actually helped me by being there for me and supporting me when I was not ready to go solo and take respons...

"Be the Change" is what I call my one-and-a-half-day workshop. The next one is from 8th Mar to 10th Mar (10am - 2pm). Here's a little intro about "Be the Change". "Be the Change you want to see in the world" - Gandhiji "Be the Change" is a workshop that enables you to understand how all change (inside and outside) begins within. It has the power to empower you to take control of your life. I firmly believe this is the only way to change anything in my world and today Quantum physicists and scientists are proving this scientifically. Basic philosophy: The basic idea here is that we are all energetically connected and according to the morphogenetic fields theory, and the Butterfy effect, any small change within us (including a thought) causes a corresponding change in the world . The good it can do: According to Dr. David Hawkins, if 1 person raises his vibration (various levels of human consciousness, energy levels ref...

When I attended a workshop on trans-generational healing, little did i know the lasting impact it would have on me... it not only helped me in understanding some things about myself better , but it also gave me a lot of basis for the personal coaching that I do and share it with my fellow coaches and peers. I'd like to write about it here because it is useful information for all and might free many of you from invisible bondages from the past. "Order of Love" is one basis on which this work hinges. What it means is that parents must live their life as they choose and pass on only unconditional love and support to their children and not their baggage. They must give their blessings to their children to live their lives to the fullest as per their(child's) wishes and learn from their(child's) experiences. That means it is the parents responsibility to pass on only love (and not their emotional or other baggage and expectations) to children and not the child's r...